Sunday, November 25, 2012

Consequences of Stress on Children's Development


Robin C. Miller
Consequences of Stress on Children's Development

            I am going to focus on five out of the eleven stressors that many children come in contact with on a daily basis. Those five stressors are poverty, hunger, noise, chaos, and violence. Working with children for a little over eight years I have come across plenty of children who had to suffer through some of these unfortunate circumstances. I work with low-income families and children so they have seen their fair share of poverty and hunger. Many children in low-income families do not have enough food or money to get by on. These families rely on the assistance of the state to help them provide for their families. Sometimes, that is still not enough. I believe that all child care centers and schools should provide free meals to the children as well as offering assistance with school supplies and uniforms. Many schools have set this kind of assistance into place already but, there are still many schools that put a price on the meals they serve or do not serve meals at all and the children have to bring their own food. I think that any institution that is based on a child’s education and well-being should assist their students and their families as much as they can so the parents can gain that relationship and trust with the school knowing that someone has there back and best interest at heart.

 

             I had recently watched a documentary on Sean Penn who is helping Haiti rebuild. Many people have a mindset of, “out site, out of mind.” Well Haiti still needs help and Sean Penn has gone above and beyond the line of duty to help. He has donated a little over 3 million dollars of his own money to help the rebuilding process that included: medicine, school supplies, food, shelter, and much much more. Watching the documentary he pointed out how many of the families are still suffering severely. Haitian homes are still destroyed and families are living in homemade camps. These camps are filled with an overflowing amount of people where the men outnumber the women. At night the women have to stay awake to make sure that men don’t sneak into their tents to rape them. The sexual violence there is overwhelming and more and more women are becoming pregnant and increasing the amount of population and poverty. These make shift towns are suffering from poverty, hunger, noise, chaos, and violence. Can you imagine what it is doing to the children and the effects it has on them? I was so saddened by this story but, it is the everyday life and the reality of the families that live in Haiti. Please keep them in your prayers my fellow colleagues.

 

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Mental Health of Parents


Robin C. Miller

Mental Health of Mothers, Fathers, and Families in General

            Good mental stability in both mother and father play an important key factor in a child’s proper development. Depression is one of the major mental illnesses that have a great effect on a parent’s ability to properly care for their child. Post-partum depression is an illness that many women suffer from after having a baby. Depression is also one of the most undetected illnesses for a doctor to diagnose. That’s why it is important for doctors to ask questions and check on new mothers or fathers to get a better understanding of their emotional wellness to care for their child. Children’s emotional, social, and cognitive development can be affected from the loss of attachment and care from parents if depression continues.

I chose this topic because one of my family members suffered from post-partum depression and I have seen how the effects trickled down to their children. It is a very serious issue that should involve help from not only a doctor but from other members of the family.

 


According to, the World Health Organization Regional office for Europe, “The foundations of good mental health are laid during pregnancy infancy and childhood. Abstaining from alcohol, substance use and smoking during pregnancy promotes a healthy start in life. Protection from childhood neglect and negative life events promotes mental impact of economic crises on mental health. Good mental health allows for cognitive and emotional flexibility, which are the basis for social skills and resilience in the face of stress. This mental capital is vitally important for the healthy functioning of families, communities and society.”

 


Source: Impact of economic crises on mental health. (unknown). Retrieved from                                                                                    http://www.euro.who.int/__data/assets/pdf_file/0008/134999/e94837.pdf

 

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Birthing Experience


Robin C. Miller

My Birthing Experience

            My personal birthing experience was over 11 years ago in the year 2001. My first child was born by the name of Marquis. He is my love, my pride and joy, and my world. The experience of his birth was priceless. I remember my family being right in my corner. As soon as I felt the contractions I immediately told my family and they were in a hurry to take me to the hospital but for some reason I wanted to take my time. I took the time to prepare myself hygienically and had the urge to wash a load of clothes before I went to the hospital. I think I was trying to ease my anticipation and fear of deliver by trying to occupy my time. I can remember the pain and how quick the birth was. I went to the hospital around 12:30 and gave birth around 3:43pm. I loved every minute of it. The experience was priceless and I will be doing the process again by the middle of June.

 

Birthing Experience in Holland

In the United States we have the option to choose from seeing a gynecologist, using a midwife, or a doula. In Holland soon to be mothers do not see obstetricians they are taken care of by a midwife. The soon to be mom has the option to deliver at home or at the hospital but, the majority of Holland women deliver at home (Schalken, 2012) . In fact, pregnant women “are required to pick up a kraapakeet which includes all of the medical supplies necessary for a home birth” (Schalken, 2012). The midwife does all the pre-natal check-ups in home and decides when the approximate time to deliver is. Unlike the United States, Holland has a really strict system when it comes to anesthesia if the mom to be decides to do a hospital birth. It is up to the anesthesiologist not only, to decide if pain killers are needed or not but also, if its “convenient” to the anesthesiologists schedule. Holland’s maternity care system is very different than the United States. In the United States for a normal vaginal delivery women stay in the hospital for two whole days after delivery and 4 days if you had a cesarean section. In Holland if you have a normal delivery mom and the baby can go home after two hours if everything is fine and the visiting nurse would do home visits for seven days to provide proper medical care to mom and the baby. Their system is different from here in the United States but they seem to be very concerned and provided a lot of care before, during, and after deliver to both mom and the baby.

 

Source: Schalken, L. (2012). Birth customs around the world. Retrieved from